Diana’s Experience

Posted in Birth Stories on February 8th, 2012 by The Sanctuary – Be the first to comment

An excerpt from our Yelp page. It is stories like this, that constantly fuel our vision of transforming the way birth is perceived in this country.

 

I accidentally stumbled upon ‘the Sanctuary’ through Dr Fischbein who agreed upon taking me under his pre-natal care after becoming pregnant again.  After meeting the midwives and despite our insurance not covering their care, my husband and I decided it was worth every saved penny we had, to ‘invest’in the hope for a natural birth or the so called VBAC ( vaginal birth after c section).

Much credit is usually given to the mom when she accomplishes the birth of her baby and rightly so; but what about the persons who make it possible?

From the very first prenatal care at The Sanctuary, I was given wings.

Dr Fischbein reassured me from the very beginning that the risks of a homebirth are no different than those of a hospital one. My chances were in fact the same, but he always urged me to choose the environment that would make me feel the safest. Through the words and encouragement of my midwives Aleks, Molly, Heather, Sheila, Katie and Marina I started to envision the birth I desired and every time a doubt or a fear came knocking at my door, they gave me the tools to defeat them.

From childbirth classes to siblings’ preparation to the most amazing spiritual healing chiropractor, Maura. These women read my mind and my soul; they took my hand and guided me to the final battle against my deepest fears. They are so deeply involved and passionate about their mission that they made my success their personal victory.

These wonderful women understand and love the human body so much to trust that it can birth another human body. I mean, that’s what they do everyday. They witness the miracle of life. The awesomeness of a body creating another body. A tiny little person who asks and needs just the right amount of time to be perfect and complete to come out.

Lately, I find myself fantasizing to be pregnant again just so that I can keep on seeing my midwives every week. I miss them and I fell in love with each of them.

As soon as Mathis was born, Heather Ann told me that this is the hardest and most empowering experience I will ever have and that I won’t ever have to repeat it if I don’t want to.

Well, I would. Every single moment of it. I would not change a contraction or a breath, I would not change a stitch. I would not change a thing, as long as my loving midwives were there with me.

All my love and blessings,
Diana

Sacred Birth ~ Sacred Earth ~ Exploring our Relationship to Mother Earth and the Evolving Paradigm of Birth

Posted in Birth Related News on November 11th, 2011 by The Sanctuary – Be the first to comment

Here is an excerpt from the October 29th LA. Green Festival Panel “Sacred Birth ~ Sacred Earth ~ Exploring our Relationship to Mother Earth and the Evolving Paradigm of Birth”
Panelists:  Midwife Aleksandra Evanguelidi; Activist, Author and former Midwife Anneke Campbell; Doula and Childbirth Educator Julie Freitas; and Activist John Quigley. Moderated by Stephanie Dawn, ASLP

Opening Statement by Stephanie Dawn (www.stephaniedawn.com)

“Presently, as a counselor and educator who works with midwives, doulas and other birth professionals to support the restoration of the sanctity of birth and the reverence due a birthing woman all over the world, I see the exertion of ‘Power Over’ women, birth and babies happening regularly. It is this very dynamic that I was protesting against 15 years ago, whether it was the clear-cutting of old growth forests in Canada and Northern California, to the drilling for oil by Occidental petroleum that was and continues to pollute the forests, drinking water and the people of South America, and that I continue to see happening all over the world in birth.
Dubai, United Emirates with doulas (whose presence has been scientifically proven to reduce labor time for women) being banned from hospitals
Australia, with midwives being forbidden to attend homebirths or be hit with extremely high fines to the tune of $30,000
Locally a midwife was recently convicted with a felony for attending a birth as a student midwife, when her mentors were unavailable.
What I also see via social networking and in my own programs, and on the world stage in the Occupy Movement, is a formidable Feminine voice rising up all over the world, that represents the Earth, that represents Birth; that which I call the Divine Feminine, speaking forth, in word and deed, from both men and women, a resounding NO! NO to business as usual. NO to the desecration of our Mother Earth. NO to birth as we know it. No to the continued use of power OVER women, babies and birth.

As Jeannine Parvati Baker, esteemed midwife and educator who has passed on from this earthly realm once said: “Healing Birth Heals Mother Earth”. How we are birthing our babies, how we are treating women and their mates is intricately tied to the humanity that now walks Mother Earth.
Here’s some statistics:
Data from the Natality Data File, National Vital Statistics System
The cesarean rate rose by 53% from 1996 to 2007, reaching 32%, the highest rate ever reported in the United States.
In 2007, nearly one-third (32%) of all births were cesarean deliveries (1). Although there are often clear clinical indications for a cesarean delivery, the short- and long-term benefits and risks for both mother and infant have been the subject of intense debate for over 25 years (2). Cesarean delivery involves major abdominal surgery, and is associated with higher rates of surgical complications and maternal re-hospitalization, as well as with complications requiring neonatal intensive care unit admission (3–5). In addition to health and safety risks for mothers and newborns, hospital charges for a cesarean delivery are almost double those for a vaginal delivery, imposing significant costs (6).
Let me take this moment to acknowledge, as the statistics stated, that many cesarean births are medically required. Many, however, I believe are the result of women and men who are unaware of their rights and their power in birth. For centuries women have abdicated their power to a ‘medical authority’ and it’s time to take it back.
Now let’s look at something that is equally as dramatic that we do to our Earth here in the US; mountain top removal mining. Mountaintop removal mining is a form of surface mining that requires the removal of the summit or summit ridge of a mountain in order to permit easier access to the coal seams. After the coal is extracted, the overburden (soil, lying above the economically desired resource) is either put back onto the ridge to approximate the mountain’s original contours or dumped elsewhere, often in neighboring valleys. Mountaintop removal is most closely associated with coal mining in the Appalachian Mountains in the eastern United States.
Peer-reviewed studies show that mountaintop mining has serious environmental impacts that mitigation practices cannot successfully address, including loss of biodiversity, as well as human health impacts from contact with affected streams or exposure to airborne toxins and dust.
Whether we are cutting deep into mountains to extract her precious resources or cutting deep into women to extract their babies, I feel we have lost our connection to our own wildness, that we have lost respect for the wild and for the feminine aspect of life. Consequently we allow the powers that be to subdue our power via drugs and ultimately control it and surgically ‘assist’ birth, which is one of the most natural and transformational experiences that we as humans experience. The vast majority of babies are therefore born in a battle zone, many in a chemical cocktail that is devoid of natural oxytocin, the love hormone, where power struggles are the norm, and they grow up to continue that way of being and perpetuate this in our society.
As Robin Lim, Midwife and Founder of the Bumi Sehat Birth Center in Ubud, Bali, says “The moment of Birth is a fulcrum and it can determine if babies are born with an intact ability to love and trust or an impaired ability to love and trust.” Babies are routinely immediately cut from that which has given them life, the placenta, and then taken from their mothers for whatever the doctors deem they “must’ do to the babies. So in a human beings first moments, this crucial time of bonding with the external world, they learn that life on earth means separation, anxiety, fear and abandonment. That life is something to be defended against.”

Weekly Web Roundup

Posted in Uncategorized on June 8th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Is the Hep B vaccine dangerous for infants?
Toxic chemicals in foam padded (see: car seats) baby products…what’s a parent to do?
Monsanto does not seem to be looking out for expecting mothers

Cooking:
We made this yummy (and infinitely adjustable to the contents of your fridge) lacto-fermented peach salsa with our summer peach surplus

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:
Egg freezing puts biological clocks on hold
An honest home birth story
…and another one

Blogs & Ends:
The cool babies wear Babiators, apparently
The breastfeeding in public controversy continues
Ouch! Don’t leave your little ones on the counter

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

Weekly Web Roundup

Posted in Uncategorized on May 31st, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Have you heard about the dad who is attempting to breastfeed?
The parents of the “genderless baby” speak out
Does work interfere with breastfeeding?

Cooking:
My kids gobbled up these crispy fish sticks
…then they ate all of this (or what was left after I ate it).

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:
Mayim Bialik: Why women shouldn’t fear home birth (must read article this week!)
On that note, the FDA can’t stop home birth, so they are going after your…birth pool?

Blogs & Ends:
How to cloth diaper your baby for only $50
Watch your breastfeeding language?

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

Weekly Web Roundup

Posted in Uncategorized on May 18th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Top supermarket foods to avoid, according to Food Matters
Vitamin D during pregnancy can possibly prevent your baby from getting this
Kids and yoga, the next generation
You will never believe what this mother gave her 8-year old daughter
Calm down, Georgia! Breastfeeding is not a crime!

Cooking:
This strawberry-mint sorbet really hits the spot on warm days

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:
Vermont bill to require insurance to pay for home birth…other states to follow?

Blogs & Ends:
Amen! Shape-up shoes for little girls IS, indeed, creepy!
Have you seen this daddy/daughter duo web-sensation? If you look at nothing else from this roundup, look at this!
30 reasons to love cloth diapers…woot!

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

Weekly Web Roundup

Posted in Uncategorized on May 11th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Is there a correlation between infant mortality rate and vaccination schedules?
Food packaging chemicals linked to asthma in babies
Common food additive cellulose: what IS that anyway?
Is there a link between brain size in children and autism?
Who knew this royal was such a smarty pants?!?
Breastfed babies develop fewer behavioral problems

Cooking:
Real food and where to buy it

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:
Could a daily dose of this hormone prevent preterm labor?
Wyoming legalizes home birth midwives

Blogs & Ends:
Saturday Night Live chuckles about home birth
Home schooling’s appeal spreads to the mainstream

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

Happy Mother’s Day!

Posted in Uncategorized on May 7th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment

For all you mother’s out there…

You give a lot of hugs, wipe a lot of tears, make a ton of meals, stop a lot of fights, wipe a lot of bums, kiss a lot of ouchies and answer so very many questions. We also get a lot of hugs, and have you ever known anybody who was more excited to see you? Mothering can be isolating, unappreciated and confusing at times, but also quite simply interesting, fun and sweet as pie.

I hope this Mother’s Day you get breakfast in bed, a sweet card or picture, a day off from cooking and your picture taken with your kids.

As the famous quote goes, Mothering is the toughest job you will ever love.

Weekly Web Tours

Posted in Uncategorized on May 4th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Breastfeeding appears to program an infant’s metabolism
Less packaged food = less BPA exposure
Eating fish can help prevent preterm birth
I knew it! My kids DO wake up taller!
Are US babies insufficiently breastfed?
Junk food addiction found in same area of the brain as drug addiction
Norway ranked best place to be a mom, Afghanistan worst

Cooking:
All you pregnant moms out there can get your (very necessary) daily dose of fermented veg with this delightful recipe: Fermented Beets with Ginger and Orange
Beets not your thing? How about salsa?

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:
What is a Doula for, anyway? Find out here
More mom’s choose midwives for birth

Blogs & Ends:
This “controversial” picture of Victoria’s Secret model Miranda Kerr has brought the breastfeeding discussion to the forefront

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

 

Weekly Web Tours

Posted in Uncategorized on April 27th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Pediatricians seek better regulation of toxins
Finland’s education success (PS – does not include endless hours of homework)
Do mom’s with first-born sons work less?

Cooking:
Chocolate Bliss Balls (a raw food recipe to knock your socks off)

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:

Pregnancy-related deaths on the rise in California
More labor interventions, same outcome?

Blogs & Ends:
7 Habits of reasonably green people
Family of 4 travels the world for 11 years!
Win a $100 Tea Collection gift card!
Awesome! Zoya will exchange your chemical laden nail-polish with their greener alternative!

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*

 

Weekly Web Roundup

Posted in Uncategorized on April 20th, 2011 by Soni – Be the first to comment
Here’s what’s happening around the web this week:

News in Health:
Is there extra “stuff” in your organic?
The great outdoors are really important for kids. Let’s file this under “duh”.
Is sugar toxic?
And along those same lines: James Vlahos asks “Is Sitting A Lethal Activity?”
Breastfeeding tied to stronger maternal response, says study

Cooking:
DELICIOUS slow-cooked baked beans and easy 5-ingredient, gluten-free chocolate muffins

Midwifery, Home Birth & Childbirth:

Could there be a shortage of midwives in our future?

Blogs & Ends:
A snappy mama opines about breastfeeding: 32 Things More Obscene than Breastfeeding in Public
Twirls & Twigs, (a gorgeous, USA-made children’s line) is having a tremendous blowout sale for any of you living in SoCal

If you’ve got an article, contest or story feature that you think would be great for the Wednesday Web Tour, please contact us at renee@birthsanctuary.com.
*The Birth Sanctuary does not endorse or condone any of the opinions expressed herein.*